Dogs can help you stay on course in life

Dog training is really a study in human psychology.  If you understand that we are all just bits and pieces of energy made up in the form of a human you will understand that everything we come into contact with will feel our energy.  The energy that we project has an enormous influence on how we interact with life.  If we are calm-assertive around our dogs, our dogs will be happy and calm in return.  They will gladly follow our lead.

  
This principal also applies to life in general notjust dog training.  Everyone has had one of those days when something is bothering you or upsetting you and it seems like on thing after another goes wrong and finally when you get off work you relax and regroup and just call it a bad day.  Well there some theories that say we are either attracting repulsing that which we want or don't want through our energy projection or commonly referred to as vibration. If you can grasp this concept then you will have a great time being Pack Leader because your dogs will be the best form of feed back you can find. Your dogs are worth 10 times more than a life coach or a personal assistant because they will give you the instant and accurate feedback that will keep you calm and assertive.  When in this state your vibration will be at a level that is in harmony with the universe and all good things will flow to you.  It is within your power to create the vibration that will attract all that you desire.  You can do it with a little help from your pack.  Your pack will love it when you are the best Pack Leader you can be and they will behave accordingly.  They are your compass that will guide your to a better feeling way of life.  You will be practicing the Laws of Attraction everyday and you will know when you are off course because your dogs will be the instant feedback that will alert you to check your state of mind and get back to the powerful pack leader energy of calm-assertive living.

Normal Dog Behavior, despicable human behavior on The Dog Whisperer

  Watching the show The Dog Whisperer today I have seen something that was both good and disturbing at the same time.  Cesar was called on to help a woman and her dog that have moved back in with the woman’s mother.  It was clear from the consultation that this was going to be trouble because the anger and passive aggressive energy was running deep.  I could see the tension in the house between the mother and daughter with 30 seconds.  I could actually feel it coming through the screen.  This dog had no chance of being in a calm-submissive state unless her owner made drastic changes to her behavior.  She was clearly self-centered and self-righteous while showing little will to do what was best for her dog and the household.  It became clear that she was not willing to make the effort or to accept the responsibility of being a dog owner. 

Cesar even said he cut the consultation short because of the tension between the mother and daughter.  I could see the daughter was domineering and angry but the mother was not able to express her repressed anger about the entire situation.   It was classic case of enmeshment and a classic case of the angry daughter coming home to live with her mother who was clearly not happy about having a new roommate.    

The daughter brought her rescue dog into the home and blamed her mother for her dog’s behavior.  She said her dog misbehaved because her mother’s dog was a Prima Dona.  It was a bit disheartening to see her reactions because she was just verifying what I already knew about her. 

It was going to be the dogs fault, the mother’s fault, or the grandson’s fault but never her fault as the dog owner.  I could tell the daughter was never going to take responsibility for her behavior enough to give her dog a good home. 

It was very disturbing to think of how easily she was willing to take the dog back.  She tried within days of adopting her but thankfully the shelter talked her out of it.  She made the reference that the people at the shelter made her feel guilty so she kept the dog.  It was disgusting behavior if you ask me and it was clear that this woman needed a psychologist, not a dog whisperer.   Of course she didn’t realize what she needed so she blamed it on her dog and fortunately for the dog, she called on Cesar. 

It was one of the few times when it is clear from Cesar’s statement about the consultation that he knew this was not a good situation.  I watched in horror as Cesar returned for a check up and they woman was talking about taking the dogs teeth out so they would not have to worry about it biting.  If this wasn’t bad enough she also said she was considering putting the dog to sleep.  I was disgusted.  I could not believe someone could be so irresponsible and self absorbed to think about putting a dog to sleep because they couldn’t accept responsibility for their negative energy that was affecting the dog. 

This was one of the nastiest and cruel people I have ever seen on the Dog Whisperer Show.  A few times there have been people there were completely out of touch with how their behavior was affecting the health of their pack.  However, this was the most disturbing, cruel and horrible human behavior I have ever seen on the show.

Cesar seemed a bit shocked at the thought of removing the dog’s teeth to solve the problem and thankfully he stepped in and offered to take the dog and find a new home for her after a stay at the rehabilitation center.  You could see that he was very confident that the dog was going to be just fine in short period of time.  They showed how the dog was doing at the rehabilitation center and at Cesar’s home and she was having a good time being a dog and was ready to be adopted by a good, knowledgeable family. 

It was the best of both worlds on this episode of the Dog Whisperer.   The despicable behavior of one human and the generous behavior of another had been clearly revealed on a show that is supposed to be about dogs. 

The show often reveals just how intertwined human psychology is with dog psychology.  Of course this was an episode that lets us know, again, that dogs are more receptive healthy energy than most people. 

Dog Walking as Part of over all Dog training

It is hard to over estimate the importance of walking your dog during training. The dog whisperer way is big on dog walking and using this exercise as a way to reinforce your bond with your dog. It is also a chance to act like the pack leader and be in control of your pet. The biggest issue that has to be corrected on the walk, which is having the dog walk you, can be fixed very quickly if you can take over the role as the calm assertive leader.

A lot of dogs are trying to fill the void if their masters are not behaving like the alpha dog. As I mentioned before in a previous post, dogs want structure and they are very willing to follow the pack leader. They won't just follow you because you think you are top dog, you have to act like it and have the energy of the pack leader. The calm, assertive energy that displays leadership and strength to your pack must be the default energy level. As humans, we sometimes fail to realize just how perceptive dogs are and just how in tune they are with our energy. They are monitoring us all the time and they will pick up even the most subtle of cues as they will act accordingly.



Don't believe this? Think of another example when your dog knows what you are going to do about 5 minutes before you even start to move. Do you start to think about going for a walk a few minutes before you want to leave? Have you ever made the effort to get ready to go without making any mention of a walk or going out to your dog? How does the dog know something is going to happen soon?

You move up from your chair casually and try to plan your mission to get everything ready for the walk so you can then spring it on your dog just as you are ready to leave but it never works. As soon as you move from your chair with the intention of getting ready for a walk, your dog starts to get excited, barks and head for the door. They gather a lot of information very quickly without you ever saying a word.

Of course you know if you even say the word WALK your dog will go wild. You may even have to resort to spelling the word out one letter at a time, only to find out that as soon as you say W it will trigger your dog to get ready. This doesn't say anything about sensing your energy but it says something about dogs ability to learn. They are intuitive and intelligent so it is our job to be the pack leader to give them a stable and well balanced life.

Dogs have outstanding senses and will pick up on our assertion to be the pack leader if we can manage to stay calm and exude the right energy. You can make walking with your dog a great pleasure. Once you become a great pack leader you will never again fear being pulled down the street by your Rottie.

Walking your dog really can be fun.



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 There are a number of reasons why dogs do well when being trained by a calm and assertive pack leader. The Dog Whisperer way allows us to use the dogs natural strengths to enhance rehabilitation or training. The most obvious as I have mentioned in previous articles is instinct.  The pack mentality has played a very vital role in the amazing evolution and adaptability of the canine species.  Fighting among themselves, hurting each other or running off on their own was a sure way to shorten their lifespan.  Even though dogs do not have the same predators threatening them today, they still have plenty of reasons to follow a good pack leader and they still have the instinctual drive to do as they have done for thousands of years.  

Another major difference between dogs and humans that often can cause training problems, is that dogs live in the moment.  They live more in the present that most humans and they have little capacity or use for holding grudges or looking backward or forward in time.  It is not uncommon for people to get a puppy to fulfill some need of their own rather than to provide the dog with a stable, balanced life.  Of course, this  understandable and the cuteness of puppies is natures way of luring us in before we realize how much work it takes to bring up healthy, stable and well adjusted dog. However, having a puppy is one of the great joys of life so its well worth the effort. But if we start to treat our dogs to much like humans it can lead to a very unbalanced and unstable pack.  





I certainly do believe that dogs have feelings and that they are in tune with our feelings as their master but the philosophy behind the dog whisperer training calls for treating the dogs much more like they would be treated if they were living in a real dog pack. It is a way to stimulate the mind in ways that work with there DNA rather than against it.  

The first and foremost thing a dog needs to do to channel some of their instinctual energy is to get plenty of exercise.  The role of exercise is two fold for the dog whisperer because it is used for more than just exercise.  The walk is a very good way to bond with your dog and to tap into their natural desire to bond with their pack leader.  Dogs used to spend most of their days or nights walking or running in a pack looking for food.  You can see the same behavior in wolves in the wild.   Although desert coyotes seem to be a bit more solitary, at least when they venture into the foot hills of the city.  The most I have ever seen has been a pack of two. 

Walking your dog is like taking an aspirin a day.  The doctors aren't sure why it helps your aches and pains, why exactly how it can be used to prevent heart disease but they just know it is good for you in multiple ways.  The same is true for the walk with your dog and it should be part of your daily routine as often as possible.

More on the Dog Walk for training in the next post. 

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